Counsellor & Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) Practitioner

Louise Molloy, Counsellor & NLP Practitioner based in Marlborough, Wiltshire

First of all, welcome! I'm Louise, a qualified counsellor (Registered Member of the BACP) and NLP Practitioner based in Marlborough, Wiltshire and I'm passionate about empowering individuals from 6 to 106 to live their best lives.

Choosing the right type of talking therapy for you or your child

Whether you've found my page looking for help for yourself or for a child, do get in touch so I can understand more about the problem. I'll also explain how I work so you can choose the right therapist for you.

From anxiety and low-self-esteem through to emotional distress, depression and trauma, we'll work together to explore those issues, feelings, beliefs or behaviours.

I offer different therapies for different age groups, so please choose from the options below to find out more information:

Adult therapy 18yrs+

Helping children to understand and manage their emotions to live their best lives!

Child therapy 6yrs+

Get in touch

Want to understand how talking therapies such as counselling or neuro linguistic programming (NLP) can help with any issues, including anxiety, depression, stress and low self-esteem?

If you do, I would love to chat with you to discuss how we can work together.

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to book a 15 minute call so we can discuss you requirements for therapy.

Knowing what a space looks like, before we visit, can massively help to reduce anxiety and enable us to focus on what we’ll get from the therapy session instead 💪🏻 This is what you can expect to see when you visit my therapy room in Marlborough, Wiltshire 💛 #counsellor #nlppractitioner #nlp #marlborough #therapyroom

“Are you even listening to what I’m saying?” 🤦🏼‍♀️ Something we’ve all said or thought at some point when speaking to children. We look at their body language and their facial expressions and possibly their lack of response and assume that they’re definitely not listening! I experienced this recently with a teen client, it felt like their lack of engagement, the endless “I don’t knows” 🤷🏼‍♀️ and their demeanour pointed to them not being interested in the work we were doing. I could not have been more wrong! 🙈 A week later I hear from their parent who tells me their child thoroughly enjoyed the session and they’d had a great week at school as a result 🥳 So the lesson here is 🤓: keep on providing your child and teen with those positive words of encouragement, keep telling them that you are proud and they are loved 🥰 Remind them that they can always talk to you 💬 Your words are not a waste, you’re not wasting your breath, your child is just processing and is not always going to gush with gratitude and thank you for your inspirational words, however, they may well do in years to come 🎉 You are being listened to - keep doing what you’re doing, it’ll be worth it💙😊

Knowing a parent is beginning to see their child happy and confident once more is beautiful 🥰 I’m so honoured to be able to support them on that journey. When they feel compelled to write a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Google review to tell the 🌍 about it, we’ll that’s the icing on the cake 🧁🥰

Sometimes when worrying about your child, it can help to look in the mirror and look at your own actions and behaviours to see if there are any similarities with how you see your child coping.❗️Worried about how they are handling conflict? ➡️Ask yourself “how do I handle conflict?” ❗️Worried about how they manage their anger? ➡️Ask yourself “how do I manage MY anger?” ❗️Worried about how they manage their anxiety? Ask yourself “how do I manage MY anxiety?” This isn’t about blame, it’s about recognising areas where you can model better actions and behaviours, because whether we like it or not, children model the behaviour and actions of the people around them.
And sometimes, we can be modelling the best behaviours in the world but our child can still find these things a struggle, so if you’d like to chat about how you can help your child to improve their emotional well-being, send me a DM or get in touch via the contact details in my bio 💛

Do you know a child or teen struggling with their self-esteem? Is it stopping them from getting involved in activities or enjoying their life?

Are they:
👉🏻 Self-critical and hard on themselves
👉🏻 Lacking in confidence?
👉🏻 Believe that the other kids are better than they are?
👉🏻 Doubt their abilities no matter what it is that they are doing?
👉🏻 Letting others treat them poorly?

Would you like them to feel more relaxed, calm and confident about themselves instead?

I'm a therapist offering children and young people the opportunity to join me in a series of four online 1-2-1 sessions where they'll learn how to:
⭐️ Change their negative internal chat
⭐️ Increase their resilience to new situations e.g starting a new school/college
⭐️ Increase their confidence and self belief in their own abilities
⭐️ Be proud of who they are!

Sessions are available on a first come first served basis.

If you'd like to know more, DM me or use contact details in bio.

#nlppractitioner #nlp4kids #believeinyourself #childrensmentalhealth #childrensmentalhealthmatters #childtherapy #childtherapywiltshire #liveyourbestlifenow #childrenemotionalsupport #childemotionalwellbeing #childrensselfesteem #teensselfesteem

Change is never easy but it will be worth it in the end, just hang in there🙂🫶🥳#nlppractitioner #nlp4kids #believeinyourself #childrensmentalhealth #childrensmentalhealthmatters #childtherapy #childtherapywiltshire #liveyourbestlifenow #childrenemotionalsupport #childemotionalwellbeing

It’s #nationallonelinessweek and feeling lonely can happen to anyone including children and young people ☹️ There may be issues at school with friendship groups, changes in BFFs, being bullied, transition to a new school etc. Loneliness has a huge impact on someone’s self-esteem because they feel that somehow they are the problem, it was their fault and of course, that’s often not true. If your child is feeling lonely at school and you’ve noticed that they are starting to blame them selves for this happening, get in touch so that we can discuss how I can help ☎️ 🤓#nlppractitioner #nlp4kids #believeinyourself #childrensmentalhealth #childrensmentalhealthmatters #childtherapy #childtherapywiltshire #liveyourbestlifenow #childrenemotionalsupport #childemotionalwellbeing

Sometimes it’s worth checking in with ourselves to ensure that what we’re offering, to anyone having a tough time, is in fact empathy and NOT sympathy! Empathy let’s the person know you really hear them and want to support them ❤️Sympathy tells a person, you have my attention for a few minutes but then I’ll be on to the next thing 🤦🏼‍♀️ If anything it can leave the person feeling worse, because they may feel rejected, worthless, stupid for sharing etc. So if you know someone is having a tough time and isn’t sharing much, check in with yourself and see if what you’ve been offering them previously has been sympathy or empathy?! #nlppractitioner #nlp4kids #believeinyourself #childrensmentalhealth #childrensmentalhealthmatters #childtherapy #childtherapywiltshire #liveyourbestlifenow #childrenemotionalsupport #childemotionalwellbeing #empathymatters

Here’s another quick tip to help manage overwhelming thoughts or feelings 🤓 It’s a simple acronym N.A.I.L to help you, a child or young person begin to explore those unhelpful thoughts and feelings in a simple 4 step strategy! Give it a go, what’s the best that could happen as a result of trying it out?! I’d love to hear how you get on with it so please do get in touch to share your feedback! Or if you’d prefer to have a chat about how I can help you or your child - contact details are in my bio 🥰 #nlppractitioner #nlp4kids #believeinyourself #childrensmentalhealth #childrensmentalhealthmatters #childtherapy #childtherapywiltshire #liveyourbestlifenow #childrenemotionalsupport #childemotionalwellbeing #copingskills

Did you know it’s National Best Friends Day today?! 🫶 It won’t surprise you that friendships are so important for children and teens when growing up🤓When they’re going great it’s amazing but when issues arise or they fall out they can feel like their whole 🌎 is caving in which can affect their #confidence and #selfesteem 😔 If you’re child is struggling with this, give me a call to see how I can help them find their way through this tricky time ☎️ (link in bio) #nlppractitioner #nlp4kids #nationalbestfriendday #friendship #childrensmentalhealth #childrensmentalhealthmatters #childtherapy #childtherapywiltshire #liveyourbestlifenow #childrenemotionalsupport #childemotionalwellbeing #confidence #selfesteem

It’s tricky to know what’s the best way to help your child or young person sometimes 🤦🏼‍♀️ If they are experiencing any, or all, of the above 👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻give me a call ☎️so we can have a chat. Contact details in bio 😎 Sometimes starting a conversation is the best way to finding the right help for your loved ones 💡💕 #nlppractitioner #nlp4kids #childrensmentalhealth #childrensmentalhealthmatters #childtherapy #childtherapywiltshire #liveyourbestlifenow #childrenemotionalsupport #childemotionalwellbeing #anxietysupport #communicationskills #selfesteemboost #confidence

Sometimes it’s hard to know what to say or do when someone is experiencing overwhelm. Use these 2 simple steps to help someone become more present and focused on what they need to do 🙂 Let me know how you get on using this technique or feel free to contact me if you’d like to chat about how I can help you or your child (details in bio) #nlppractitioner #nlp4kids #childrensmentalhealth #childrensmentalhealthmatters #childtherapy #childtherapywiltshire #liveyourbestlifenow #childrenemotionalsupport #childemotionalwellbeing #mentalhealthtips #overwhelm

It’s so heart warming when you receive testimonials from parents who recognise the hard work their child has put in, so that they can manage themselves differently in challenging situations 😊 Get in touch if you’d like to see how I can help you and your child💡
#testimonial #happyclients #helpingparentshelptheirchildren #nlp

I recently chatted to a lovely lady called Claire who works with parents to help them parent in a way that is better for them and benefits the whole family too 🥰 She not only offers 1:1 and group sessions, she also has a lovely and supportive FB group called Conscious Parents Re-villaging that you should check out: https://www.facebook.com/groups/consciousparentsrevillaging/permalink/1189874905245535/

I’m sure many parents and care givers are familiar with asking the question “how was school today?” and getting a response that is loaded with lots of negatives of how their day was the worst day ever! 🤦🏼‍♀️

💡Instead of asking “how was your day?” change the question to “tell me 3 good things about your day” If they tell you they really want to tell you about the drama that happened, let them know you will listen to them, AFTER they have focused on some good stuff that happened that day too! 🌈

Practicing this daily will break their habit of always focusing on the negatives and help them to realise that there is actually positives to their day too!! 🧠

The positives don’t need to be massive, they can be as simple as “I had a laugh with my mates at break time” or “lunch was nice” - it’s just about retraining their brain to look for the positives instead of focusing on the negative continually😊

#nlppractitioner #nlp4kids #believeinyourself #childrensmentalhealth #childrensmentalhealthmatters #childtherapy #childtherapywiltshire #liveyourbestlifenow #childrenemotionalsupport #childemotionalwellbeing #threegoodthings #breakthehabit #focusingonthepositive

👉🏻Are they worried about making friends at a new school? 👉🏻Concerned about their final GCSE/A-level year? 👉🏻Nervous about ‘fitting in’? 👉🏻Would you like them to feel more relaxed, calm and confident instead?

I'm an NLP4Kids Practitioner working with children and teens to help them:
⭐️Challenge their negative 'internal chat'
⭐️Feel more relaxed and empowered
⭐️Increase their self-esteem and confidence

I offer 1 to 1 appointments and workshops both face to face in Marlborough, Wiltshire and Newbury, Berkshire and over Zoom.

If you'd like to know more, send me a DM or FB message or you can get in touch via my website www.louisemolloytherapy.co.uk 😊 #nlppractitioner #nlp4kids #childrensmentalhealth #childrensmentalhealthmatters #childtherapy #childtherapywiltshire #liveyourbestlifenow #childrenemotionalsupport #childemotionalwellbeing #childtherapyberkshire #schoolanxiety #worriedaboutschool #backtoschool

For anyone doubting themselves this morning….this is for you ☝🏻

If we don’t do the thing, we’ll never know if it could have worked out🙂

Hang in there, you’ve got this 💪🏻

#nlppractitioner #mindset #mindsetiseverything #worrying #anxiety #nlp4kids #believeinyourself #childrensmentalhealth #childrensmentalhealthmatters #childtherapy #childtherapywiltshire #liveyourbestlifenow #childrenemotionalsupport #childemotionalwellbeing

If you feel stuck right now and are struggling to see your problems from a different perspective, ask yourself the following question “if this was happening to my best friend, what advice would I give to help them out?” Listen to your response and then act on it - be your own best friend 👍🏻🥰 #nlppractitioner #nlp4kids #believeinyourself #childrensmentalhealth #childrensmentalhealthmatters #childtherapy #childtherapywiltshire #liveyourbestlifenow #childrenemotionalsupport #childemotionalwellbeing
#beyourownbestfriend

…..why wait until tomorrow, next week or the 1st January? Go for it now, what’s the worst that could happen? 💡💪🏻 #mondaymotivation #nlppractitioner #goals #nlp4kids #moveitmonday #livefortoday

Hands up if you’re already thinking about your NY resolutions 🙌🏻 Worried you’ll fail at the first hurdle? 🙈 The secret to setting any resolutions or goals is the level of detail you apply to it 🔑 Flaky goals = Flaky results 🤷🏼‍♀️ Want to succeed this time? 🏆 Get in touch for a chat to see how I can help you 🥳 ➡️ see link in bio ⬅️ #nlppractitioner #nyresolutions #nyresolutions2022 #goals #youcanachievemorethanyouthink #positivevibes #positivemindset #settinggoals

I’ve written an article with some useful tips on how to help young people when they are convinced that the world is against them. Click the link in my bio and head to Useful Articles for further info 😊 #anxiety #nlp4kids #childtherapywiltshire #buildingchildrensconfidence #buildingchildrensresiliance #buildingchildrensemotionalskills #nlppractitioner #lifeskillsforkids

Wondering what NLP is all about and how it can help your child? I’ve written an article that answers that very question! 🤓 ➡️click the link in my bio for more info⬅️ Get in touch if you’d like to know more 😊 #nlppractitioner #nlp4kids #childmentalhealth

Does your child have some limiting beliefs that are getting in the way of them achieving their goals? Get in touch to see how I can help them with this ➡️contact details in bio⬅️ #nlppractitioner #nlp4kids #positivemindset #limitingbeliefsbegone #wiltshire #berkshire #childrensmentalhealthmatters

I’m now officially a licensed NLP4Kids Practitioner and I couldn’t be happier🥳🥳 Over the last 18 months I realised that it wasn’t enough for me to be upset about the lack of mental health services available to children and young people, I wanted to get involved and be part of the solution. 💪🏻 If you know someone who might benefit from some help (child or adult) or you’re simply curious as to what NLP is all about, DM me or you can find my contact details here ➡️@nlp4kidsmarlborough #nlp4kidspractitioner #nlppractitioner #makingadifference #childrensmentalhealthmatters #nlp4kids

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